![]() “We should have the right to choose how we want to have sex, and he took that right away from me.” “No one protects us, and a lot of don’t even care,” she tells gal-dem. She cannot confirm her abuser was to blame, but she is sickened by his violation of her trust. She found pre-cancerous cells in her cervix which required surgical removal and threatened to impact her reproductive organs. ![]() Though people in Chile have mixed feelings about the bill, Isidora, a survivor of stealthing, supports it. “We understand that it is serious, but not the same as sex that is forced from the beginning. “In the case of stealthing, the sexual relationship starts as something consented, accepted as sexual intercourse with protection, and when the protection isn’t there the consent is lost,” she explains. Orsini says the definition didn’t come easy. Similar to the Germany ruling, the Chilean draft categorises stealthing as sexual abuse crime punishable to between 61 to 540 days in prison. In most countries, including all of South America, no stealthing laws or judicial protocols exist. This year, in Germany, a woman was sentenced to a six-month suspended sentence for rupturing her partner’s condom without his knowledge – but it was classified as a sexual crime, rather than rape. Similar sentences have been handed out in New Zealand, where a man was found guilty of rape after taking off his condom during sex and is currently serving a three-year and nine-month jail term. Cases that have ended in prosecution include a man who secretly pierced his condom before having sex, and was sentenced to four years in prison in 2020. The UK does not have a dedicated stealthing law, as it falls under rape, although survivors say reports of stealthing have been left uninvestigated. Sexual rights advocates across the world debate whether stealthing should be classified as a rape or an abuse crime, with definitions and legal consequences differing country to country. “We should have the right to choose how we want to have sex, and he took that right away from me” Isidora She hopes that the bill, if approved, will enable survivors to take legal action against their abusers and send a strong message to denounce this behaviour. Unfortunately, if a woman reported it to the police, there would be no prosecution,” explains Orsini. “Stealthing today is not classified as a crime. It will now move to the Senate for further approvals and discussion rounds before it can be made law. In January, the bill swept through the lower House of Deputies, garnering 73 votes in favour of it and just three against. Last year, Orsini submitted a proposal to legally classify stealthing as a crime. “It was different for everyone I spoke to, but some had their lives very seriously impacted by it.” While there’s no official statistics on how often stealthing occurs across the country, Orisini’s research indicated it’s happening “more than (she) ever imagined”. Arabella later hears a podcast that flags the behaviour as a premeditated and deliberate form of abuse that is punishable under UK law.Īfter watching, Orsini investigated stealthing legislation in other countries – and how frequently it was happening in Chile. Arabella, played by Coel, has consenting, protected casual sex, but her partner removes his condom. Orsini was unfamiliar with the term stealthing until she watched the IMDY scene. ![]() “A lot of times, is spoken about as if it was something inherent to being a woman, and the series reveals the necessity to deconstruct that.” “I May Destroy You impacted me a lot,” she tells gal-dem. Orsini is a 34-year-old lawyer, trained firefighter, former model/actress and two-time elected deputy – the Chilean equivalent of MP – but first and foremost, she’s a women’s rights advocate. Watching the scene from her home in Santiago, Chile, Maite Orsini realised that women and queer survivors of stealthing in her country had no legal protections to help them. In one bold scene, Coel’s character and series protagonist, Arabella, experiences stealthing – taking off a condom during sex without consent – and later calls it out as rape. Not many television series inspire groundbreaking legislation in countries thousands of miles away from where they are set and written, but Michaela Coel’s I May Destroy You(IMDY) isn’t the average show.Ī sweeping study on sexual abuse, the Bafta and Emmy award-winning series cracks open the harmful, yet often muted manifestations of rape and harassment. Content warning: this article contains mention of rape and harassment ![]()
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